Anti Cyber Bullying
The Virgin Mary Girls’ School aims to ensure that children are safe and feel safe from bullying, harassment and discrimination. This school is committed to teaching children the knowledge and skills to be able to use ICT effectively, safely and responsibly.
WHAT IS CYBER-BULLYING?
There are many types of cyber-bullying. The more common types are:
Text messages – can be threatening or cause discomfort. Also included here is‘Bluejacking’ (the sending of anonymous text messages over short distances using bluetooth wireless technology)
Picture/video-clips via mobile phone cameras – images sent to others to make the victim feel threatened or embarrassed
Mobile phone calls – silent calls, abusive messages or stealing the victim‛s phone and using it to harass others, to make them believe the victim is responsible
Emails – threatening or bullying emails, often sent using a pseudonym or somebody else‛s name
Chat room bullying – menacing or upsetting responses to children or young people when they are in a web-based chat room
Instant messaging (IM) – unpleasant messages sent while children conduct real-time conversations online using MSM (Microsoft Messenger), Yahoo Chat or similar tools
Bullying via websites – use of defamatory blogs (web logs), personal websites and online personal ‘own web space’ sites such as You Tube, Facebook, Ask.fm, Bebo (which works by signing on in one‛s school, therefore making it easy to find a victim) and Myspace – although there are others.
Explanation of slang terms used when referring to cyber-bullying activity
1. ‘Flaming’: Online fights using electronic messages with angry and vulgar language
2. ‘Harassment’: Repeatedly sending offensive, rude, and insulting messages
3. ‘Cyber Stalking’: Repeatedly sending messages that include threats of harm or are highly intimidating or engaging in other on-line activities that make a person afraid for his or her own safety
4. ‘Denigration’: ‘Dissing’ someone online. Sending or posting cruel gossip or rumours about a person to damage his or her reputation or friendships
5. ‘Impersonation’: Pretending to be someone else and sending or posting material online that makes someone look bad, gets her/him in trouble or danger, or damages her/his reputation or friendships
6. ‘Outing and Trickery’: Tricking someone into revealing secret or embarrassing information which is then shared online
7. ‘Exclusion’: Intentionally excluding someone from an on-line group, like a ‘buddy list’.
This list is not exhaustive and the terms used continue to change.
Aims of Policy:
To ensure that pupils, staff and parents understand what cyber bullying is and how it can be combated.
To ensure that practices and procedures are agreed to prevent incidents of cyberBullying.
To ensure that reported incidents of cyber bullying are dealt with effectively and
Understanding Cyber bullying:
Cyber bullying is the use of ICT (usually a mobile phone and or the internet) to abuse another person
It can take place anywhere and involve many people.
Anybody can be targeted including pupils and school staff.
It can include threats, intimidation, harassment, cyber-stalking, vilification, defamation, exclusion, peer rejection, impersonation, unauthorized publication of private information or images etc.
Procedures to prevent Cyber bullying:
Staff, pupils, parents and Board of Management (BoM) to be made aware of issues surrounding cyber bullying.
Pupils and parents will be urged to report all incidents of cyber bullying to the school
Staff CPD (Continuous Professional Development) will assist in learning about current technologies.
Pupils will learn about cyber bullying through Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE), assemblies, friendship week activities and other curriculum projects.
Pupils will sign an Acceptable Use of ICT (Information and Communication Technology) contract.
Parents will be provided with information and advice on how to combat cyber bullying.
Parents will be expected to sign an Acceptable Use of ICT contract prior to enrolment and to discuss its meaning with their children.
Pupils, parents and staff will be involved in reviewing and revising this policy and school procedure.
All reports of cyber bullying will be investigated, recorded, stored in the Principal’s office and monitored regularly.
Procedures in our school Anti-bullying Policy shall apply.
The Gardaí will be contacted in cases of actual or suspected illegal content.
This policy will be reviewed annually.
Where bullying has occurred teaching staff will:
Fill out the standardised recording template issued by DES in Circular 045/2013.
Keep appropriate records which will assist him/her to resolve the issues and restore, as far as is practicable, the relationships of the parties involved inform parents of the matter at an early stage and explain the actions being taken.
Information for Pupils
If you‛re being bullied by phone or the Internet:
Remember, bullying is never your fault. It can be stopped and it can usually be traced.
Don‛t ignore the bullying. Tell someone you trust, such as a teacher or parent or call an advice line.
Try to keep calm. If you are frightened, try to show it as little as possible. Don‛t get angry, it will only make the person bullying you more likely to continue.
Don‛t give out your personal details online – if you‛re in a chat room, watch what you say about where you live, the school you go to, your email address etc. All these things can help someone who wants to harm you to build up a picture about you.
Keep and save any bullying emails, text messages or images. Then you can show them to a parent or teacher as evidence.
If you can, make a note of the time and date bullying messages or images were sent, and note any details about the sender.
There‛s plenty of online advice on how to react to cyber bullying. For example, Ie.reachout.com and www.wiredsafety.org have some useful tips.
Text/video messaging
You can easily stop receiving text messages for a while by turning-off incoming messages for a couple of days. This might stop the person texting you by making them believe you‛ve changed your phone number.
If the bullying persists, you can change your phone number. Ask your mobile service provider about this.
Don‛t reply to abusive or worrying text or video messages. Your mobile service provider will have a number for you to ring or text to report phone bullying
Visit their website for details.
Don‛t delete messages from cyber bullies. You don‛t have to read them, but you should keep them as evidence.
Teachers do not have permission to communicate with present or past pupils of the school on any type of social media, this includes Facebook, Twitter and any form of email.
All staff of the Virgin Mary Girls’ School have the right to privacy out of school hours and are not to be contacted by pupils both present or past on any type of social media, this includes blogs, forums tagging posts on Facebook, Twitter and any form of email.
Useful Websites
www.spunout.ie
www.childnet.int.org
www.antibullying.net
www.kidsmart.org.uk/beingsmart
www.bbc.co.uk./schools/bullying
www.childline.ie/index.php/support/bullying/1395
www.chatdanger.com
http://ie.reachout.com
www.kidpower.org
www.sticksandstones.ie
www.abc.tcd.ie
topreviewedten.com/kids-esafety-guide//
Compiled in consultation with teachers, pupils, parents and Board of Management February 2013. Reviewed in line with Anti-Bullying Procedures for Primary & Post – Primary Schools, Department of Education & Skills September 2013.
Reviewed annually.
WHAT IS CYBER-BULLYING?
There are many types of cyber-bullying. The more common types are:
Text messages – can be threatening or cause discomfort. Also included here is‘Bluejacking’ (the sending of anonymous text messages over short distances using bluetooth wireless technology)
Picture/video-clips via mobile phone cameras – images sent to others to make the victim feel threatened or embarrassed
Mobile phone calls – silent calls, abusive messages or stealing the victim‛s phone and using it to harass others, to make them believe the victim is responsible
Emails – threatening or bullying emails, often sent using a pseudonym or somebody else‛s name
Chat room bullying – menacing or upsetting responses to children or young people when they are in a web-based chat room
Instant messaging (IM) – unpleasant messages sent while children conduct real-time conversations online using MSM (Microsoft Messenger), Yahoo Chat or similar tools
Bullying via websites – use of defamatory blogs (web logs), personal websites and online personal ‘own web space’ sites such as You Tube, Facebook, Ask.fm, Bebo (which works by signing on in one‛s school, therefore making it easy to find a victim) and Myspace – although there are others.
Explanation of slang terms used when referring to cyber-bullying activity
1. ‘Flaming’: Online fights using electronic messages with angry and vulgar language
2. ‘Harassment’: Repeatedly sending offensive, rude, and insulting messages
3. ‘Cyber Stalking’: Repeatedly sending messages that include threats of harm or are highly intimidating or engaging in other on-line activities that make a person afraid for his or her own safety
4. ‘Denigration’: ‘Dissing’ someone online. Sending or posting cruel gossip or rumours about a person to damage his or her reputation or friendships
5. ‘Impersonation’: Pretending to be someone else and sending or posting material online that makes someone look bad, gets her/him in trouble or danger, or damages her/his reputation or friendships
6. ‘Outing and Trickery’: Tricking someone into revealing secret or embarrassing information which is then shared online
7. ‘Exclusion’: Intentionally excluding someone from an on-line group, like a ‘buddy list’.
This list is not exhaustive and the terms used continue to change.
Aims of Policy:
To ensure that pupils, staff and parents understand what cyber bullying is and how it can be combated.
To ensure that practices and procedures are agreed to prevent incidents of cyberBullying.
To ensure that reported incidents of cyber bullying are dealt with effectively and
Understanding Cyber bullying:
Cyber bullying is the use of ICT (usually a mobile phone and or the internet) to abuse another person
It can take place anywhere and involve many people.
Anybody can be targeted including pupils and school staff.
It can include threats, intimidation, harassment, cyber-stalking, vilification, defamation, exclusion, peer rejection, impersonation, unauthorized publication of private information or images etc.
Procedures to prevent Cyber bullying:
Staff, pupils, parents and Board of Management (BoM) to be made aware of issues surrounding cyber bullying.
Pupils and parents will be urged to report all incidents of cyber bullying to the school
Staff CPD (Continuous Professional Development) will assist in learning about current technologies.
Pupils will learn about cyber bullying through Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE), assemblies, friendship week activities and other curriculum projects.
Pupils will sign an Acceptable Use of ICT (Information and Communication Technology) contract.
Parents will be provided with information and advice on how to combat cyber bullying.
Parents will be expected to sign an Acceptable Use of ICT contract prior to enrolment and to discuss its meaning with their children.
Pupils, parents and staff will be involved in reviewing and revising this policy and school procedure.
All reports of cyber bullying will be investigated, recorded, stored in the Principal’s office and monitored regularly.
Procedures in our school Anti-bullying Policy shall apply.
The Gardaí will be contacted in cases of actual or suspected illegal content.
This policy will be reviewed annually.
Where bullying has occurred teaching staff will:
Fill out the standardised recording template issued by DES in Circular 045/2013.
Keep appropriate records which will assist him/her to resolve the issues and restore, as far as is practicable, the relationships of the parties involved inform parents of the matter at an early stage and explain the actions being taken.
Information for Pupils
If you‛re being bullied by phone or the Internet:
Remember, bullying is never your fault. It can be stopped and it can usually be traced.
Don‛t ignore the bullying. Tell someone you trust, such as a teacher or parent or call an advice line.
Try to keep calm. If you are frightened, try to show it as little as possible. Don‛t get angry, it will only make the person bullying you more likely to continue.
Don‛t give out your personal details online – if you‛re in a chat room, watch what you say about where you live, the school you go to, your email address etc. All these things can help someone who wants to harm you to build up a picture about you.
Keep and save any bullying emails, text messages or images. Then you can show them to a parent or teacher as evidence.
If you can, make a note of the time and date bullying messages or images were sent, and note any details about the sender.
There‛s plenty of online advice on how to react to cyber bullying. For example, Ie.reachout.com and www.wiredsafety.org have some useful tips.
Text/video messaging
You can easily stop receiving text messages for a while by turning-off incoming messages for a couple of days. This might stop the person texting you by making them believe you‛ve changed your phone number.
If the bullying persists, you can change your phone number. Ask your mobile service provider about this.
Don‛t reply to abusive or worrying text or video messages. Your mobile service provider will have a number for you to ring or text to report phone bullying
Visit their website for details.
Don‛t delete messages from cyber bullies. You don‛t have to read them, but you should keep them as evidence.
Teachers do not have permission to communicate with present or past pupils of the school on any type of social media, this includes Facebook, Twitter and any form of email.
All staff of the Virgin Mary Girls’ School have the right to privacy out of school hours and are not to be contacted by pupils both present or past on any type of social media, this includes blogs, forums tagging posts on Facebook, Twitter and any form of email.
Useful Websites
www.spunout.ie
www.childnet.int.org
www.antibullying.net
www.kidsmart.org.uk/beingsmart
www.bbc.co.uk./schools/bullying
www.childline.ie/index.php/support/bullying/1395
www.chatdanger.com
http://ie.reachout.com
www.kidpower.org
www.sticksandstones.ie
www.abc.tcd.ie
topreviewedten.com/kids-esafety-guide//
Compiled in consultation with teachers, pupils, parents and Board of Management February 2013. Reviewed in line with Anti-Bullying Procedures for Primary & Post – Primary Schools, Department of Education & Skills September 2013.
Reviewed annually.
